Something I've learnt recently is that I wouldn't have handled critique when I was younger, which is probably why it took me so long to gather the courage to make writing a career.
If I had put myself out there earlier, I think I would have been too vulnerable. You see, self belief and self esteem are both strong factors in how well you receive critique.
I have learnt to take it with a grain of salt. Good and bad. It is useful, of course, but when all is said and done it is an opinion. If I take too many positives on board, then I risk getting comfortable, or interpreting it as I'm there. In actual fact, we are never there. You can always learn more. So, as great as a good critique or review is, and as much as it makes me feel good (yes, I am human), I try not to let it go to my head.
Conversely, when I get some negative critique, I try not to take it as a hit to my self esteem and look at what they are saying and try and find an area to learn. What are they telling me? Can I use their suggestions? If not, then I take it at face value and don't get bogged down by it.
Professional critiquing usually involves some great notes. It doesn't come across as a personal hit anyway, and is probably the most valuable.
As yet, I've not had to deal with reviews (one day, hopefully), so as far as they go, I've got no experience. However, I do believe that it doesn't matter where comments come from, if you have a belief in yourself and your work, you'll keep moving forward and get on with the job. Ultimately we all write crap sometimes, chalk it up as experience and move on.
Happy writing ;)
Emma
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